If you are shy, find out what your shyness is afraid. If you are timid, find the weakness to the timidness. If you often procrastinate, find procrastinations biggest enemy.
I know this sounds weird, but I’ve been thinking about this approach a lot versus suddenly building the confidence to do all the things I’ve ever wanted.
Instead of rising up to the occasion, maybe it’s better to weaken the obstacles ahead just enough to keep going.
by Jason Lam